My ex is refusing to take anything to do with our son (hes disputing he is the father), he hasnt met him and i dont think he will as he hasnt spoken to me since i was 4 months pregnant. I text him the other day since we had got our csa packs through saying i wouldnt stop him seeing his son if he wanted to and got an essay back
He says that i have no right to name his as DS's dad when i was sleeping with a bus driver and an alcoholic. I dont know any alcoholics personally nor slept with any bus drivers
That i lied about being on contraception (i was on the pill and he didnt use condoms)and was on fertility tablets to deliberately get pregnant. I had 3 months on clomid for pcos which he knew about. Might add here that he gave me herpes and yet i was the one at fault yet he had been on a swinging site meeting others.
He says that i have ruined the family life he has with his sons from his ex wife and has spoken to a laywer about raising a civil action against me and has asked for access to my medical records to back him up in court as well as my social media and texts etc and he has people known to me who will testify... everyone i know hates him so no clue who hes got there. Also that i had no right to continue the pregnancy as i have no means to support a child as im on benefits. He says ive never to speak or see him again, i have no intention of but what do i do when my DS is growing up? What if he hates me for his dad not being there? :(