Exp phoned at the start of this week saying he had Sunday off and would have our dd overnight.
I phoned him last night to check what time he was picking her up (last week he was an hour late) - he said he was working and would phone me back. It got to 11pm and still had no answer so phoned him again.
Turns out he now can't have her after all, has only just found out he'll be working. I had made (very rare) plans to go out after having a rather crap couple of days and had cancelled my counselling session on Monday morning as the only time he could drop her back clashed with my session time.
For once I finally became assertive enough to say that this was not on, that although dd is still of an age where she wont pick up on the irregularity of her time with him (ie she wont be sitting waiting for him), I have a life myself and to keep changing plans like this is really affecting me.
His response is to say "What do you want me to do I have to work to live" - yes fair enough, but then why can't you contribute financially to your dd's upbringing?
Sorry rant over, just getting really sick of this.