I need to have a vent... my ex has reported me to the NSPCC for hitting our child. I have been on the phone to a social worker today and the social worker has also called my son's nursery. It's been clear to the social worker that based on my response, nursery's response and my ex's history that there is no need to investigate the report further. But it has left me fuming, such a horrible call to have to take.
This isn't the first time I have suffered at the hands of outright lies by my ex and it probably wont be the last.
I don't deny access, I do a four hour round trip on alternate weekends to meet him at a halfway point, I call him every week so that he can speak with our 3 year old, I do everything I can and should do, but he won't give up.
He's engaged to the woman he had an affair with, he lives in a huge house in the country, seems to have no money worries so what is his problem he should be happy! I live with my partner in a small house and am struggling, but we never ask him for more money... he pays peanuts and we just get on with it!
Plus I'm angry that he has wasted the time of people who should be dealing with children who are in real danger.
Rant over!