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New here and need a friend :)

9 replies

BetterWoman · 05/05/2015 22:30

Hello fellow single parents! I've been a member of Mumsnet for a while but I rarely log on and I've decided that now might be a good time to reach out and make some friends :) I'm a single mother to three beautiful children, my youngest is 1, and I've been single for 3 years. I worked full time until 3 years ago and have been a sahm since. It's all good, I adore my children and wouldn't change a thing, but lately I'm struggling with insomnia, breastfeeding and generalised anxiety. I'm a bit of a loner so I don't talk to anyone about these things, and I'm not even sure I want to talk about them, but would just really like to be able to chat with other single parents holding it together :)

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meglet · 05/05/2015 23:04

Hello You're in the right place. We're all holding it together Smile. Sometimes dropping things, sometimes juggling it all without too many problems and always drinking lots of tea / coffee and eating biscuits.

We've got a couple of long running lp threads, a sharing the burdens general supportive chat and moaning and the housework thread.

All different circumstances but no judging and no 'helpful' "can you get a babysitter / cleaner / au pair?...." comments.

Alwaysrushingaround · 05/05/2015 23:07

Ill be your friend!
Working full time, my DS is 2.5 , single 2 years now.
Get v lonely at times,living in a remote area and find it hard to motivate myself to get out and about when DS is away at his dads.

BetterWoman · 05/05/2015 23:22

Ah thank you Meglet and Alwaysrushingaround, it's so lovely to meet you! I wasn't really sure whether to expect any response or not, so thank you :) I too live in a remote area and it suits me perfectly because I don't generally need human interaction outside of my children, but lately things have got a bit much and I've realised that I really do need to talk. Insomnia is the worst as a single parent because there is absolutely no reprieve. I'm quite tired! Meglet please pass me the chocolate biscuits and Alwaysrushingaround please tell me more about your situation xx

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BetterWoman · 05/05/2015 23:31

Also, can anyone tell me why the Mumsnet Talk app is completely blank? I've tried all menus and reinstalled but I got nothin' Confused

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meglet · 05/05/2015 23:32

not sure. I'm on the Samsung / android app and it seems to be ok for me.

BetterWoman · 05/05/2015 23:41

I'm getting this on every screen :(

New here and need a friend :)
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BetterWoman · 06/05/2015 00:10

Well, never mind. I'll check in here. Thanks so much ladies for responding, it means a lot to me x

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BetterWoman · 06/05/2015 23:41

Thank you ladies for your responses. If anyone else would like to chat, please do not hesitate to get in touch! I don't really get much time to talk until late at night, so it would be reassuring to meet any fellow night owls :)

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TheDetective · 06/05/2015 23:45

Hi!

I'm a single parent too. I have 2, soon to be 3 boys.

Oldest is 13. Little one is 2.5. Baby is due in June.

I've been alone since December now.

I too don't get much time to myself until the evenings!

I had insomnia after my second son was born. It's a fucker. Real bastard! I hope it eases soon.

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