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I left him... :-/

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beckiebee04 · 03/04/2015 09:53

I recently left my partner of 3 years, we have a 9 month old girl, ive moved back home with her. Here's why
He drinks a lot and is always out on the piss, two weekends he's gone out drinking and not returned for two full days , his phone turned off and he never returned to look after the baby why I went to work, so I sed I was leaving him, why I was at work he burnt all my clothes because I wouldn't sort it or give him yet another chance!!!! So I've moved home, he was arrested and now he's i crown court end of April ,
He's been pestering me to sort it with him, but I'm not going back, he says he's been diagnosed with depression and is getting all the help to make him better.. I left him in the house with all the bills which he can't afford....
Now I feel so empty and like I've take a huge leap back , he keeps texting telling me he's doing the house up nice blah blah... I ain't going back to him as I know this is the right thing ,
I just feel numb and empty now

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queentroutoftrouts · 03/04/2015 10:24

I think you have made the right decision.
He burnt all your clothes?? WTF!
He sounds vile and i would be trying to stay as far away from him as possible.
Hugs to you and your daughter.

Starlightbright1 · 03/04/2015 17:04

Its sounds like you have done the right thing. You will be in shock so don't expect to feel great right now but you will.

I suggest anyway you can reduce contact the better..Listening to this will not make you feel any better. You need to focus on how you are moving forward. The practical stuff is easier at this stage. Seperating money etc

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