Hi I have 2 kids as some of you may know by now and im almost 14 weeks pregnant. Im on my own and im sooooo tired! My 1yo dd has decided sleep is not a good thing....she doesnt even nap anymore she goes to bed at six but is up again at 11 and wont go back off until morning by which time I have an hour or so befoee i have to get up to get ds ready for school. Dad sayshe wants to be ssupportive but is basically a d**k. If I was to go bed when he came to see them I would get endless abuse and comments on how im such a bad mum. My ds tries to help but he is only 6. Dad has to see them at mine as he lives with his mum and brothers and there have been problems with drugs in the house. I cant trust him to take them out as I would worry that he would take them there and I wont have my kids in that environment. ...its not right. Some of you may say I brought this on myself as a few years ago we split and I stopped contact with my ds after he came home with a black eye..he was two at the time. Dad took me through the courts and was granted access on saturdays from 10 til 5 and Thursday after nursery..we agreed that once ds was in full time school he could have him Tuesday aswell. Contact was to be community based. Things went well....I was naive and though he had changed so decided to give it another go....now we have another child and one on the way and I feel so alone. He hasnt changed and I dont know what to do. He throws in my face all the time that he has a court order even though I havent threatened to stop contact. I dont want to as he can be good with them. Its just that I get constant abuse off him and my kids hear this....my ds actually called me a cow the other day. I dont know how to handle this anymore. I need support as im pregnant and I have some health problems associated with this but I cant turn to him as he has threatened to phone ss on me! My mum is a carer to my elderly grandmother and my own dad doesnt care either.