i'm new on here and posted a message a couple of weeks ago but didn't get much response. i'm a single mum to dd nearly 4 years old and i'm now pregnant with a different guy's baby, 15 weeks now. he has left us and gone abroad because he couldn't handle the situation but now is emailing me about how sorry he is and how much he regrets his actions and how much he loves me. i can't handle it because he caused me so much pain and i'm only just piecing together our lives and trying to find somewhere new to live etc, and trying to hold it all together, the email correspondence is not helping me but at the same time, he is the love of my life even after what he has done and i don't want to shut off all hope of us getting back together in the future if he sorts his head out. at the moment he doesn't even know for definite that i'm keeping the baby because i haven't been able to calm down enough to tell him, and i've been trying to get an explanation out of him first for why he bailed out on me.. guess we are both having trouble facing reality.. any advice / similar situations, would love to hear from anyone, also i live in bath, if there is anyone local to me i'm feeling quite isolated at the moment it'd be nice to meet new mums..