I had enough of my exh, 6 years everything has been on his terms, he choose not to see the dc's for nearly the first 3 years after we split and now has them every other Saturday overnight and then the alternative Sunday for the day only!
2 months ago he asked me to change 3 of his days so he and his wife could do some (social) things they wanted to do..... Not problems willingly accommodated this and at the same time ask him to change this weekend and have the kids on Friday day and overnight instead of Saturday as I have a wedding to attend.
So today I call him to make arrangements for dropping kids off tomorrow morning and he tells me he can't have them until 4pm! This is despite me telling him that the wedding was at midday 50 miles away!
I'm fuming, I am the one who accomadates everything, I drop the children to him every week, I change days when he needs me to and in the six years we spilt up he hadn't paid a penny in maintenance despite working full time and leading a good life!
Whst I really want to do is tell him that in future I am not driving the children to his and that he can come pick them up on his days and he needs to hand over maintenance otherwise they are not going..... I'm so tempted, but can I really do this!