So exp took dd out today, she's 3 and sees her dad every 6-8 weeks. We moved 100 miles away from him back to my hometown after he proved himself to be a spineless shit.
He picked dd up today (on time for once, admittedly this may have got my hopes up too much too early), told me the plan for the afternoon and off they went. Dd quite happy and looking forward to her time with daddy. All is well.
Fast forward 5 hours- they get back, dd COVERED in some sticky purple goo and smelling a bit odd.
He explained that she'd had an accident and he couldn't get her to the toilet quick enough. Dd has been potty trained for months and accidents can be counted on one hand- none of these in public as she is mortified when it happens so is very concious of it and on point with warning me when she needs to go with time to spare. She would've been VERY clear that she needed to go.
Secondly, he's taken her to nandos for tea- she doesn't like 'spicy' food or chicken off the bone, nandos is exps favourite. He says she tried the chicken and spat it out, she says she just ate the mash.
The long and short of it is that she arrived back to me after 5 hours, wet, hungry, embarrassed and smelling of piss. And to top it off, when i stripped her off to bath her, she was covered in a rash from her accident where he never even bothered to clean her up!
He can't even look after his child for 5 fucking hours!!
Do I need to get a grip and just accept that it was a series of unfortunate events or do I say something?
They were in the city centre all afternoon, it's not like facilities are lacking!