Fucking 'fathers'

[WanderingAway]

I just need to rant.

My exh is such a prick. He still believes that after 2 years of not seeing our child, not phoning, not emailing, not even sending a birthday card that it is my fault that he doesnt have a relationship with her.

I am the bitch because for 7 years i have brought our child up on my own while he swanned in & out of her life.

I know exactly how you feel my ex is the same he has blocked all forms of communication from me so I cant contact him and he never contacts me about the kids but still insists that I wont let him see them

Mainly because he couldn't stand in the pub and say yes I do have kids but I don't see them because I am an unreliable, useless, selfish waste of space.

It's out of guilt. Same situ with my ex here. He'll be telling everyone it is my fault but will omit the fact the Judge agreed with me he could still see her in a Contact Centre if I was the problem. Strangely enough he STILL refused. Simply too much effort and not enough in it for him.
It's all projection OP

Snap! I've got endless emails where he's "not my babysitter" and refused all suggestions of contact yet it's my fault! Now we're in court and im the bad guy.

We have never stepped foot in a court together. When we got divorced he didnt show up once. He didnt push for a contact order so we dont have one. I just kick myself that i tried to force him to have contact when he clearly wasnt and still isnt interested.

Oh but he is a good dad because he has dds name tattoed on him.

My ex calls himself "superdad" cringe

We only went to court so he could try to wriggle out of paying maintenance You have to laugh at the extent they go to to try to 'win'.
My ex is now with a woman who has tied up all of his finances and linked them to herself, convinced him not to see his child and could have him arrested for fraud if he steps out of line. She also works with him and even is friends with his boss. He is well and truly trapped. That is karma!