fed up

[charlene82]

I'm single mum and finding contact for children hard. Moved 100 miles from ex and every two weeks either he has access at my house or have to go his but when at his it difficult as not always got visiting to do and it hard staying at ex house . Just not sure what best solution

So every other weekend he comes to you on Friday after work and collects the kids, and you collect them from him on Sunday evening?

Alternatively, especially if you aren't working, drip them to him every other Friday early evening, and he drops them back on Sunday for tea time?

No he stay at mine as he doesn't drive then when I take them his I drive I do work also. The problem is I don't like staying at his house but due to cost have to but always feel fed up. When he comes to mine he has the kids to take out but when I take kids to his I've nothing to do as it his time with kids

Sorry I worded it wrong... I meant my two paragraphs as suggestions. There must be trains etc? Or, if you have to do both drives due to him not driving he could maybe cover petrol for one of the trips? I think for your futures you need to stop sharing contact time..

Now get you lol only problem is that the cost is quite lot but think it something have to think about. It hard also when drop them off at his as it 11 hours driving and picking up . Know we need to do things different as hate spending time with ex husband try to do extra shifts at work not had break at all either and would be good to get break . Thanks for advice xx