My husband left on NYE leaving me with two DC ages 3 and 1 yo.
He sees them every other weekend, his parents pick them up and take them to their house where H is meant to be living (he doesn't live there most of the time, does odd nights at OWs parents house, in her car, at friends etc).
He has told me he wants them in the week to which I've told him no. The children are settled and we do things in the week (swimming, tots groups, nursery etc). He would also have no where to take them.
They have come back this weekend and ILs have been telling me they've been out somewhere. All wonderful, had a lovely time, great. I asked DD (3) today who went out with them and she said daddy didn't go. I've asked her a number of times and in different ways and she's adamant daddy did not go with them because he fell asleep.
Is this right?? He sees the children EOW, apparently wants to see them more but doesn't actually spend time with them when they are there?? Is it just me or is this behaviour a little odd?