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GEM33 · 01/03/2014 21:50

He left me two months ago for someone else dd is two. We are still talking but he s started being awkward with child care. Says he won't babysit when I'm on night shifts and late shifts because he doesn't want his life "ruled by my job/shifts" I'm having to move in with mum so my mum can be my child carer to set him free so he can see dd when it suits him (nob head).
We jointly bought the house 6 years ago. All I want is him off the mortgage. I want him to completely walk away from the house and not pay me any maintenance. I'd be happy for this to be in writing so I can't go back on this.
He already pays 200 a month to the mother of his 13 year old (he left he for someone else when ds was two also).
I seriously don't want his money I just want the house.
Any comments/ advice?

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cestlavielife · 03/03/2014 13:35

it doesnt matter how much he paid as mortgage payments as that has been to his benefit to live there....only counts if it was big lump sum from his own money eg to build a loft or kitchen maybe - that is if you not married

russianfudge · 03/03/2014 13:57

It just sounded like you were saying I don't need him to see the baby and that's fine because it's not like I'm asking him for any money. But I must have misread it.

is luck with it all x

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