I have a beautiful 4 year old dd. split with her father 3 years ago and have been in a great relationship with dp for 2 years.
My dp and dd have a loving and close relationship. We are all very happy as a family.
My issue is that my dp is adamant he doesn't want any children. And although I dont want one now, I feel I will really want one in the nxt few years. When I met dp he already had had a vasectomy, so I have known from the start his position. But I can't get over trying to convince him otherwise.. This has to do with him once telling me (over a yr ago) that he would give me children if I wanted them. He doesn't remember saying this bit I have held out hope of it happening.
Has anyone been in this position? I kno I mustn't resent him as he's been upfront from the beginning. The relationship is too good to leave. I guess I'm just looking for advice in how to deal with having only 1 child when you wAnt another. Thank u