Looking for some advice

[mumof289]

Currently going through court process for child contact. There is an injunction on my ex partner over domestic violence yet he is allowed to question me at the finding of facts hearing at the end of the months. Currently he has had 1 supervised contact sessions by cafcass. He has recently made very very disgusting allegations that I have accused a past partner of rape and been violent to me when I have never in my life accused anyone of this nor would I even consider doing it to anyone. It's horrified me the lengths he is going to to make me look bad and question my credibility of my allegations of domestic violence which is truth. He claims he has 4/5 independent witnesses who can provide a character reference for me who I have apparently disclosed this information too and to get them to stand in court against me. The judge has give him 3 days to get these statements and confirmations that they will attend court on the first day of finding of facts. I do have legal representative. However I have nothing to counter act what he is saying apart from keeping my head held high. I have kept my dignity about me, as these are very recent allegations.. Yet I'm surprised the judge wants to hear what these people who apparently know me have to say! I just want to protect my girls from him. I'm scared enough as it is, but somehow manage to keep strong for them.

Any advice/experience would be great.. Thanks in advance!

There is also a lot more to this, it's just a question from today. 2 babies to ex partner. The injunction was due to the domestic abuse I was subject to which was either infront or while I was holding one of the children. He is really playing the nice card and until now has never made an allegation against me and has complimented on how much of a "perfect loving mother" that I am. I believe he is using his silver tongue he used with me to make him look like the good guy and make me look like the bitter twisted ex who stopped contact when he moved on to a new relationship which really isn't the case! He had sporadic contact at the beginning of his new relationship for 4 months and when things got worse infront of the babies that's when I stopped contact and gained legal advice and from then on social services where involved, domestic abuse team Etc. SS are no longer involved and where very supportive. Since the first court hearing over the injunction family members and myself have been targeted by his family (ex- parents house been damaged, acid threw on cars, bricks thrown at windows and abuse shouted to family members, threatening phone calls - which hve all been logged but since there is no evidence of it been him as he has orchestrated it all that he has got away with everything).

Just wish he would leave us alone. If his true intention would be towards he children then obviously this would be a whole different situation.

Ill admit I am not whiter than white but I have never said anything of that nature that he is claiming and the fact that he has witnesses of this is disturbing in itself because how is he getting round these people? I'm sure there is a hate campaign going on!

I am happy and content with in myself to know the truth of what has really happened and he knows it too which is why I'm finding this hard.

The babies are so happy and I wish to carry on protecting them as before and always will.

I'm sorry I dont have any useful advice but you might get more response by posting in relationships?