So my mum has done nothing but moan at me that I spend Saturday's with my partner and that she doesn't get to see me on her own. She now has a new man in her life of about 2 weeks that she does nothing but ditch everyone for!
For instance:
Last Saturday she had me drive 20 miles to a shop to pick up an item of clothing because she had asked me out, thinking I'd make a day of it I invited my friend and we took our LO's out did some Christmas shopping and got lunch, Round 4 o'clock I get a phone call demanding to know where I am as she's at my house and I'm not there with this dress she wanted. She hadn't told me to be home by a certain time or that she needed it for a certain time I was just told to pick it up, so I tell my friend we have to go half way home she calls me again "I've left now, forget it and take it back. I've had to wear a dress that's to big because of you"
Sunday comes and I tell her I would be taking the dress back this AM she ask's to come with me as she brought the same dress two sizes to big (the one she wore last night) and wanted to return it for the one I had and I had to be ready for midday. Midday comes around and I ring her she's still in the hotel room with this new man and she'll be there when she's there. She asked me to have dinner with her, so I did and I told her I'd cook it for 7, knowing my mother she's usually 5/10 minutes late so I did it for 7:10pm She wasn't here and she had told me she was leaving at 7, I gave my LO dinner and after 5 minutes I ate mine. Come half past she still isn't here LO has finished and so have I so I start washing up. My buzzer goes off and I let what I thought was her in, turns out it was my partner who waited till after dinner to come round Just as I finished she strolls in all dolled up it's quarter to eight LO is late for bed because I kept her up for her as she asked when LO's bed time is 6pm. She then proceeds to get arsey with me because her dinner is cold hmm When I tell her she said she was leaving at 7 and she wanted it done for that time what did she expect? Her response was the new man had called and therefore she just had to take the call so she was late and it's not her fault is it. She eats her dinner leaves her plate on the floor and practically runs out the door because she's off to his house.
She normally see's us throughout the week yet she continually arranged to come see me and LO telling me to tell LO she was coming round to see her and the ditch us because he had phoned and asked her to come round. LO some days was standing by the window calling "nanna" every time a car drove past or someone walked in the hall way.
I rang her on the way to Sainsbury's Wednesday to catch up as I hadn't seen her for a long time for us and she got arsey again that I was doing my food shop without her. Never mind LO had ran out of milk bread it wasn't fair but she promised to see me tonight at our Pole dancing class down the gym. I get there and the girls come in and tell me that she isn't coming. I ring her and I get "yeah well the new man asked if I was free so I went round" I reiterate our whole conversation about how she promised to see me and wasn't even going to let me know as I wouldn't of gone if she wasn't going to. She missed the last week to after promising all the girls she'd be there because he called and she dropped everything. The girls where annoyed and so was I cause she'd promised us all she'd be there and only told one of the girls because they rang her.
I then get the new man on the phone asking me questions like "Do you want me to be your step dad?!, What am I like as a person, Do I like him, about my LO?!?! I've never met this bloke and this is the first time I've spoken to him
She ditched another friend yesterday she arranged to have dinner with because he rang, she came round to see my LO today who was knackered as it was past bed time and LO is ill and she falls asleep!!! wakes up as her phone goes off and it's him she just left again because he wants to see her.
Would you be annoyed?! Because I am. More for the fact that she keeps asking me to keep my LO up promising to be here then not bothering without even letting us know angry