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sukue · 11/12/2013 08:29

when i first found out im pregnant and i told my baby daddy and he denied in my face saying the child aint his im carrying a busterd etc i was hurt almost destroyed i kept telling my friend tht i wasn't strong enough to keep this baby tht i was suffering inside it wasn't fair for me to be pregnant with a heartless man's child but now tht im only a few weeks away to delivery i have bonded with this child i had even considered adoption but i could never give him up i talk to him listen to his kicks and i have done baby shopping, its all just so better the pain is not so much anymore he has become my comforter. i hardly think of the dad now even if he doesn't come back i seem not to care and yet in the beginning it all seemed impossible without him he had hurt me the pain was so deep.

Here is to encourage all those who are hurt by their partners made to feel worthless, useless and used like i once felt, it all gets better the heart heals. Be strong for those kids they are not a mistake but a blessing. Lets love our kids and teach them to be more responsible thn the parents that left

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russetbella1000 · 11/12/2013 23:55

Definitely-there really is no choice between a f*wit man and the joy a new baby brings. Of course, I can only speak from MY experience but I have had the most amazing few years since becoming pregnant and bringing up my beautiful daughter alone. I pinch myself everyday because she is here and once more because of the double luck I had NOT to HAVE to share THE EXPERIENCE with anybody else...She has a father like everybody else, he just figures differently in her life-no biggie :0)

All the best with your exciting future!!

NewBeginningsSnoopy · 12/12/2013 02:42

Sukue you've made me so happy with your post. It's so nice. I too have come through the other side now in the last couple of weeks and I just appreciate the kids and am not letting the fw (who still gives me trouble but I'm handling it better) get to me anymore. Feel so much stronger and it feels great. I wish you all the luck and love in the world with your new baby son Smile

sukue · 12/12/2013 08:35

Thankyou russetbella1000 and NewBeginningsSnoopy its amazing to know tht you two also pulled through after the dads showed little or no care. I cant wait to meet this boy

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