Hi everyone me and my ex have been split for 3 years now and our son sees his father every other weekend i still provide clothes for him which often don't return meaning i have to go out and buy new ones all the time. my son still sleeps on a small child blow up bed which he says he gets cold (iv spoken to ex about this but nothings changed). When ever i ask my son what hes done with his dad he says watch telly or nothing. when i spoke to my ex the other day about taking him out he said he just couldn't afford to i kinda thought ok with a new misses and another baby on the way things were tight but then i found out hes brought his gf a car a horse and a new laptop and baby designer clothes. i just feel so upset for my son i just feel he deserves more my ex pays me support with csa and says i should be grateful its not about the money tho. i just want my ex to provide my child with a bed and love. My ex has told me hes not having him over Xmas next year as his gf wants it just to be her him and baby which makes me so cross that my ex is ok with that. my son doesn't receive calls or anything from his dad when its not his weekend its like out of sight out of mind and then he strolls up saying im his dad iv have got a new partner which my son adores and has started calling step dad which my ex hates and has told him hes not allowed to call him that. i just feel stuck i now how important it is for my son to see his dad yet at the same time his dad dont deserve to iv been so patient with him changing when he sees him yet he throws it back in my face and then dont want to no even when hes got him. He has the same rights as me i just had enough of him treating my son this way i need this to end.