Dd is 1.8, I'm 10 weeks pg with dc2 and partner has cheated and I just can't get over it this time!

[Mummabear12]

Hello... Bit of back info to start with!
Been together 3 years at the beginning he cheated and got his ex pg I stayed and we ended up having dd later that year too! After a lot of uncertainty in the years following that (more cheating) Everything was going great totally got my trust back in him and decided to try for another baby (he initiated this idea) and fell of straight away in aug. a week after I got BFP I found out he had cheated twice since June with the same girl. I have been trying to just get over it like I did all the other times but because I haven't felt like that in so long I just can not do it! I just feel so bad on dd and can I really cope with two kids under 2and a half! Do not know what to do! I haven't told anyone about him cheating this time cuz I know I'm the one that looks like the complete idiot and I obviously haven't told everyone I'm pg yet as its still early but I'm dreading having to say yes I'm pg and I'm doing it on my own! Just feel like a mug :( x

youre only a mug if you keep going back for more.

Im sorry youve been the victim of a cheating psycho like this. I hope whatever you do, doesnt involve him.

:( so sorry. Don't worry what people think. They will think HE is the mug for cheating. They think HE is the mug for risking breaking up his family. Do you have good friends and family??? I'm sure people will b willing to help you and support you. As far as I'm concerned, once somebody has been given a chance after cheating it has to be them act chance.
Hope you're ok. Look after yourself x

Yes you can do it on your own is the first thing..We just do because we get the kids come first..

He is the mug..My ex was abusive never told most till he left. as I expected them to expect me to leave..I did it in my own time and when I was ready best thing I ever did..

There may be some who make judgements but most will want to to support you and these people will be the ones that are there for you

Oh you poor love, that is truly rotten. I don't think he'll change though. Maybe best to let him go and do what he does whilst you concentrate on the kids and finding someone better.

You will be okay, we all are xxx

None of this is your fault. You've just been a bit too nice really.

He's a loser.

You will be fine, you'll cope. You're doing the best thing by your dd by demonstrating that you deserve more than this cheating liar.

You deserve better.

You'll need lots of support so please tell your friends & family.