Hi,
Relatively new on here but enjoying not feeling on my own 
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Been divororced 7 years. Polite relationship with ex but still intimidated by him-controlling and bit of a bully. Done everything I can to support his relationship with our 2 ds' s. He's been more consistent in last two years having boys1 night a week & occassional days away.
Last week he insisted that he has boys 2nd night per week when he's around. What he doesn't know is that eldest ds really gets stressed, about staying with him. Ds being investigated for aspergers which ex-h just doesn't see, want to see or understand.
Need to talk to ds' s tomorrow about it and feeling totally stressed about it. Does anyone have any suggestions? Should ds have a say in it?