HI I am new to this site, I have a 17months old DD and have been seperated from her dad since she was 5 months. She sees him every week which is a good thing but his rules and opinons on things are very different to mine.
When sshe s at mine she has a bedtime routine, she sleeps in her own bed, eats healthy, says pllease and thankyou, and generally listens to me.
When she is at his, she goes to bed when he does (usuallly 10/11), sleeps in his bed, eats crisps and drinks sugary drinks. He still feeds hher baby jars, he doesnt ever tell her NO.
When she comes back she is always extremly tierd and sleeps for about 4 hours in the afternoon. She doesnt liisten to me and it usuallly takes about a day for her to re-adjust.
Yesterday was the worst, she came back at 4, then I went to see my dad. On the way home she feel asleep so when we got in I put her to bed. I tried to wake her for dinner but she didnt want to get up, and was to sleepy to eat. So she didnt get dinner and woke up at 5 for her breakfast.
I feel so sorry for her. She must be so confused having two completely different parents. If I say anything to him then he acuses me of trying to come between them and interfering in their relationship. Which im not.
Does anyone have anything similar with their XP, and how are your LO's coping
Sorry for the long post xxxx