Hi all,
I've tried googling but I'm not having much luck, so I'm hoping someone here can help.
My friend and her ex split before lo was born. Ex isn't a nice character at all, but df tried to get him involved in lo's life. He started seeing lo, then claimed lo wasn't his. Csa ran DNA and unsurprisingly lo is his. He started seeing lo again but he then began showing up at random hours demanding to see lo, lo be woken if sleeping, demanding df dropped plans whenever he decided to see lo (and screaming she was denying contact when she either didn't get a message in time or continued with her plans). Lo seemed to be suffering from lack of routine so df told ex that it wasn't fair on any of them, especially lo with the current situation and that they should both set aside regular times for lo.
He went absolutely nuts at her, and disappeared for a few weeks. Somewhere in the middle he was made redundant (he knew it was happening before of course). He then got very abusive with her, and then left the country for a new job.
That's the background anyway.
Problem is now that he's advised the CSA of his redundancy, but as far as df knows not his new job. Ex won't give her any details on the job, and CSA won't tell her much obviously because of data protection but rewarding between the lines they didn't appear to know about new job. So csa now say they aren't in a position to confirm she isn't be paid voluntarily, but also aren't confirming if they are recalculating or what's happening. Oh and obivoisly he's told her to EFF off and she's not getting anything.
So here are the questions.
- even if they only know about his redundancy should they not be informing Df of the possibility there won't be payments?
- as contact has now ceased between then, what happens if he returns to the UK and earns? Will the CSA automatically pick this up?
- if they don't can Df periodically ask them to reassess? If so, how often?
- anything else df can do?
Apologies if Dd is written anywhere, autocorrect seems to prefer it to df.
Many thanks in advance.