Hi I'm new to this and looking for some advice. My husband left me 4 months ago. We have a 9 months old dd. ex has just proposed maintenance payments of 15% of his net monthly income. Previously he was only paying £80 per month and paying his share of mortgage as he had left martial home. He works shifts where he works days (6.45 - 3.45), lates (2.30pm - 11.30pm) and nights (9.30pm - 7am) he is also contracted to work short notice overtime where he is required to work at weekends too. He is a season ticket holder for a footy team and goes to all home games drinking before & after the match. He has asked for at least 2 overnight stays a week and access every weekend! I work full time but work flexi time where I can go in when I want and finish when I want. My mother looks after dd when I'm at work. Previous access arrangements were 2 days during week fitting around his shifts for at least 3 hours and 4 hours on a weekend when I quite he wasn't at work or at the match! Fitting our dd around his lifestyle! What would anyone suggest? When he has also had dd on a weekend I have discovered that he has left dd with his mother went to pub to watch footy and then come back to bring dd back to me!