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So he finally rings and ........................

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nutcracker · 02/04/2006 15:17

First thing he says is, have you changed your email addy ?, I say no why, and he says cos you are always showing as offline on msn.
So I told him I had deleted him as a contact just like i'd said I was going to do.

He starts moaning, there was no need etc, and so I said why haven't you rung the kids before now and he said oh gonna start again are we, so I said no i'm on about the kids and he said f**k off and hung up.

So he still hasn't spoken to them Angry

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nutcracker · 02/04/2006 15:20

Am so tempted to text W**R to his mobile.

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Freckle · 02/04/2006 15:20

Start keeping a diary of all contact and what is said, etc., so that, if he is stupid enough to start an application for residency, you will have plenty of evidence that he is not fit to be their primary carer.

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nutcracker · 02/04/2006 15:21

It is so obvious he does not give a toss about the kids at all.

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Freckle · 02/04/2006 15:21

Well, don't. Because he can then keep that evidence to show you in a bad light.

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nutcracker · 02/04/2006 15:22

True, though i'm sure has loads of fake evidence already.

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nutcracker · 02/04/2006 15:51

Can't believe he hasn't rung back, how can he treat them like this. I haven't told them he rung and thankfully they were upstairs so are non the wiser.

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misdee · 02/04/2006 15:53

how long has it been?

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nutcracker · 02/04/2006 15:54

Nearly 45 minutes.

I bet he has been in the pub this afternoon and is pissed, he was always a nasty and selfish git when he was pissed.

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misdee · 02/04/2006 15:55

no, i meant since he spoke to them? where has he moved to? is there an update thread cos i havent been keepinmg up.

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nutcracker · 02/04/2006 15:58

Oh sorry, he hasn't spoken to them since he stormed out on tuesday, after we rowed about him not looking for flats.

He is living at his sisters now about 40 minutes away.

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GDG · 02/04/2006 15:59

I agree with keeping a record of these things.

Sorry this is so crap for you nutty.

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nutcracker · 02/04/2006 16:02

It honestly doesn't bother me that he is behaving this way for me because it just reminds me why we split up in the first place, but to treat his kids like this really annoys and upsets me.

When i met him and we got together he always bent over backwards to make sure he saw his 2 kids from his narriage, we even brought a house we couldn't afford so we had room for them to stay but for our 3 kids a phonecall is too costly.

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sanchpanch · 02/04/2006 21:13

hope you are feeling better, it is so hard i know,

My ex doesnt ring at all in between visits, and i prefer this, he knows i would phone if anything was wrong, every 2 months i photo copy my calender and he marks it for when he is having dd2.

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