Ok,
Im 43 and have been divorced for 4 years and single (ish) for that time.
2 months ago I met a guy in his late 30's and we really hit it off. We only see each other twice a week due to both of us working very long hours in professional jobs.
Neither of us were looking for a serious relationship when we met but he has since admitted he is falling for me and I do like him a lot 
Obviously we haven't talked about where the relationship is going yet as its been such a short time.
We have never discussed birth control as he has always just reached for a condom at the appropriate time and tbh I prefer to use them anyway to protect my sexual health.
Anyway, last week after sex we discovered that the condom had split in two and he was really upset by this. I presumed this was because he too was concerned about sti's. I reassured him that since my divorce I had always used them plus I had had a check for sti's earlier this year.
Tonight we were chatting on the phone and he brought it up again saying that it had been on his mind. I asked him if he didn't think I was being honest about my history and his reply left me speechless.
He said that it wasn't that at all, it was that fact that I could have got pregnant and that he had always felt that when the time was right and he met the right woman he would want to bring up a child in a loving environment and he wasn't in a position right now (due to working away, fixing up his house ect) to be there for mum and baby.
Now, I 100% don't want children. I won't ever change on this plus Im too old and enjoy my life way too much. I feel 
because this isn't gonna work out, is it?
Im gutted, I know its such early days for a relationship but I feel I should say something now and avoid both our heartache later.
Am I right or jumping my guns a bit?
Some thoughts wise mn's please