DDs have been to their grandparents every other weekend for the last 2 years as there dad only had a tiny flat so it was easier if they all stayed at the grandparents (he stayed too)
they have kept a change of clothes and toiletries there -I have no idea who paid for them but I'm guessing MIL
he has now bought a house and the DDs will have a bedroom there, but he doesn't want them to keep stuff there for their weekend stays, he wants them to take everything to school with them for the weekend (change over is done around school drop offs/pick ups)
he doesn't want them to have a bottle of shampoo and their toothbrushes becuase he doesn't want the clutter???
is this just another way of getting me to pay out more money (not a lot in the grand scheme of things but when what he pays doesn't even cover school dinners these things matter) or is he just trying to wind me up with the tremendous faff of packing up bags on thursday evening and then having to unpack and deal with washing and stuff?