Ex is refusing to sick to, or should I say acknowledge the contact arrangements we agreed. Last week we agreed on tues, thurs and sun for a few hours each, time depending on his work. I agreed contact could take place at our jointly owned house, where I live for several reasons, and I would go out. This was to start on thurs. He called me to say he would not be able to get here until 6, I said fine. When he arrived, he said he couldn't stay, ended up leaving after 45 mins! Then yesterday he called at about 1pm to say he was coming to see the dc, I said no, we where out. Again this morning at 10am he called to say he was coming to say he was coming to see them, I told him it wasn't convenient as we had had a bad night and where only just up. He then called an hour later to say he would be here in 10 mins whether I liked it or not. I left the front door locked with my key on the inside, when he arrived. He was not happy, shouting at me for not allowing him free access to the house, reminding me for the millionth time that he was free to come and co as he pleased as he still own half!
He also sent my solicitor a letter this week, after her sending him one to say I was not happy about the arrangements, saying that I had been asking him to come more often, I was a liar and he would not be agreeing to any offers of contact, he would see the dc as a and when he wished!
I just don't know what to do any more. I really don't want to have him just waltzing in the house every day for half an hour as and when he pleases.