Long back story, pretty boring, but I have a new problem, hopefully someone can help?
My ex and I have an informal arrangement and share care of our two young children 50/50, alternate weeks. I am going to spend the summer holidays at my new partners house as it's in a lovely rural location and I need a relaxing break. The kids will obviously be there with me every other week. They know him well and we've stayed there before, just not fr a whole summer holidays (well the half they have with me). He's not someone new to them or me.
Ex has previous caused incidents at my home, resulting in him shouting swearing at the door etc. Police have been called on a few occasions. I do not want him to have my partners address He has no reason to, he has my mobile number for emergency contact (we dot contact each other usually). He only wants it so I will worry that he will turn up, cause problems etc.
He has said that his solicior has informed him he is entitled to know where his children are sleeping. Surely when they are in my care (equally for when they are in his care) he can't legally be entitled to know where they are.
I'm upset and worried and now can't speak to my solicitor til Monday. He has today said he's applying to court this afternoon to force me to either give him the address or to have the children forcibly removed and handed over to him. He's trying to upset me and ruin our relaxing break :(
I wouldn't dream of demanding his new partners address, although I know the kids sometimes havesleepovers there, or his parents new address where the kids stay when they see their grandparents. He is their parent and has parental responsibility and I leave him to ensure they're safe when they're with him.
He's claiming it's for "the children's welfare". Just to add he has no reason to believe they'd come to harm
at my partners house- no history or abuse, neglect,
drink or drugs or anything "on" either of us. He's just ebony jealous and spiteful.
Any ideas? Thanks :)