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How do you explain HUGE cv gaps?

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thedogsrolex · 12/06/2012 00:30

I probably should post this in employment but I don't fancy a pasting tonight.

Worked since leaving school. Worked before kids, worked after kids, worked as a parent, worked as a lone parent.

I've been unlucky, have been made redundant four times now. I managed to find other employment/other roles in same company so have never been out of work for more than a few months.

Until 2009. That was when I last worked. I've tried and tried to get something else but there's little about. Childcare is a huge hurdle..not so much the cost as tax credits do help once they actually pull their finger out, but the availability.

I've been put onto the work programme. Have explained why I don't see much I can apply for due to the start times being impossible, not difficult, or too much hassle..impossible. I've been "encouraged" to apply for anything I can do as the hours may be "negotiable". I think that's rubbish, when so many people are applying for the same job the employers are hardly going to reduce hours to suit me when they can employ someone else who has no restrictions.

Anyway, i've done what they asked and applied for jobs I know I can't do. I had what seemed initially to be a promising phonecall last week regarding my cv. Until he asked me what i've been doing for the last three years. All I could say was that I had been jobseeking. "Since 2009?".

How do I explain the huge gap without coming across as an idle layabout? I can hardly harp on about childcare even if that's the truth...It wont help my case. I'm gutted. The promised call never came. I'm not lazy, or workshy. I've had some bad luck and i'm trying my best to get another job, have been for three years. I'm hoping to get some voluntary work soon organised by the work programme but untill then....?

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minceorotherwise · 27/06/2012 21:07

You will. Because that's what you have done.
The fact you are articulate, motivated and angry says a lot about you already.
You are not about to give up, you are just sick of the knock backs.
I reckon that will last about a week if that, and you will be back up for the next hurdle.
You will get a job, and you will get the job you deserve. Because any employer worth their salt, will see that in you too

minceorotherwise · 27/06/2012 21:13

You will. Because that's what you have done.
The fact you are articulate, motivated and angry says a lot about you already.
You are not about to give up, you are just sick of the knock backs.
I reckon that will last about a week if that, and you will be back up for the next hurdle.
You will get a job, and you will get the job you deserve. Because any employer worth their salt, will see that in you too

minceorotherwise · 27/06/2012 21:14

Didn't mean to say that twice! But hey, maybe it needs saying twice!

WishingRLwouldFuckOff · 27/06/2012 21:20

You are not alone. It sucks totally. Stuck in a situation you don't want to be in, never wanted to be in and people keep saying just keep trying.

There will be something out there, but it would be nice for people to stop critising and give some proper support.

Although, can I just say, I admire the fact that you are angry and fighting your corner. I had just given up. Perhaps tomo, I shall follow you example and approach this with a kick ass attitude. Giving up doesn't help.

Is there anyway to think outside the box? A business idea that can be done? A service? Childminding? I know it might not be ideal but would it be a route to work around the impossible hour issue and earn. Although I do understand that childminding is definitely a calling and not everyone wants to spend time with other people's children, or has the circumstances to facilitate it.

thedogsrolex · 28/06/2012 22:22

Thanks guys. wishing tbh i'm not good with kids...never had any interest in any but my own. I'm not a people person either, couldn't be a carer...i'm too shy..never say the right thing. That's not to say I don't bother about others...I do..but couldn't do it for a living. I'm one of those slightly awkward people folks are never sure about Grin

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Tambasher · 03/07/2012 20:14

Aww i am sure something will come along, I feel your pain, I have to try explain

"oh my Ex had an affair, got her pregnant, then they both abused the feck out of me for a few years and I am now having multiple counselling sessions to get over it" Grin

I say I was "breeding cats but it got boring" even that is bad, I can almost hear the long pause at the other end of the phone thinking WTF?

I am sure something that is for you will come up!

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