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[pinkglitter]

i have a frends wih benifit situaton & i really want to end it but don't have the bottle as i always thin the sex is good. but after he goes- i have a guilty feeling.

What bothers you about it? Why guilty? Do you think you are letting yoourself down in some way?

the thing is when we met he used to text me all the time - now he doesn't bother & he only seem to txt when he wants something, he came over last night normally stays the night then he seemed to get what he wanted then left. I do like the guy but feel used.

So just end it. The sex cant be that good that its worth feeling crap.
Personally couldnt enjoy sex with someone who had no respect for me, i can do NSA sex but not with someone who has zero interest in me other than my willingness to shag him.

what foosa said. My fwb texts me all the time, we speak on the phone a hell of a lot and occasionally go for a cuppa but we seem to be quite good at seperating the sex from our friendship. We have a mutual respect for each other and if either one of us thought it was getting complex I am sure we could discuss it. If you feel used don't bother with him. Life is far too short to feel shit because of a man!!

thanks for the advise - I know it takes two to tango but really he has lost all respect for me.