Just pissed off. My ex's drink problem got critical around 2.5/3 years ago and since then he has had me in and out of court trying to get contact and denying drinking. Blood tests, police and medical records showed he was lying. So he has had only supervised contact since, a bit sporadic since at least 1/3 he didn't show up. We tried contact centre, a childrens service and also I supervised for a while and had to put up with his barbed comments toward me.
A few months ago his mum paid for him to go to rehab.
In court this week he was back wanting contact and I feel I am being pressurised into allowing it at too early a stage. Recent police records (just before rehab) have shown him to be unstable in his relationship and his actions are still suggesting mental problems besides the drinking.
Because he has let them down so many times I do not what direct contact until at least a year after rehab.
Yesterday in court I was almost being bullied into allowing his cousin to supervise. She is younger and I don't trust her to inform anyone if he crosses boundaries (drink or behaviour). The cafcass worker lost her temper and started saying I was a 'disgrace' and more...
I suspect cafcass are desperate to get this done and dusted now, but I do not trust him.
My solicitor told me that it would be hard top stop contact altogether now as he has had a negative booze test.