2 months of being a lone parent and ..... I love it!!

[mama2moo]

To start with I was posting on here about how miserable and bored I was. Now I wake up happy and go to bed happy!!

My house is how I want it, my girls are happier (even pre school have noticed this), financially I am better off and I am happy. I only wish I had done this years ago!

So, for those of you just starting out on your own it does get better and you will be happy

Sorry if this is a bit fluffy!!

I remember your post....and we all said how happy you would be!
You go girl!

Well done you and I am glad you are happy.

I am much happier now and my relationship with my DS is so much better after getting over the initial shock that is! I am bloody glad my Ex left

Here, Here!!. Thankgod I can wholeheartedly agree, when I think of all the time spent agonising in chronic pain due to stress and am much happier than I was and laughing more with my ds. I was told by exp would not cope on own with ds, am ruining both their lives all the horror stories that could be thrown at me, thankfully only made me more determined to make a better life for me and ds.
Its so uplifting to see a great positive message to all

did not mean finish it like that (computers!). Basically saying all worth it in the end and peace of mind is priceless!.

Being single is great!!! Makes me laugh when i hear my friends with OH's moan about how useless they are! I find it easier if im honest - also me n my ex get on so much better now than we did when we were together :)

So good to see such positivity.

Newly embarking on life as a lone parent (to 2 ds's, one with sn) and I feel massively daunted by what lies ahead but also strong and positive (long may it last!) about the future.

Glad you are happy. But i dont think life is an endless search for happiness but for wholeness. I think wholeness brings happiness but i dont think happiness necessarily brings about wholeness.

It may be just where im at in life but i cant see the splitting up of a family as something to be celebrated wholeheartedly. Good things will always come from bad situations if we work for them but it doesn't make the bad thing good in itself.

I dunno, i could be talking crap! All the best with your future.