Have offered to make a plan for contact arrangements for the next 6 months with XP, in a weeks time. It will be the first review of our current plan, which was put in place 12 weeks ago - 2 weeks after he walked out. I have been flexible, co-operative and supportive of his right to see DS.
I am also 26 weeks pregnant.
He has responded that he expects another 12 week review to happen because 6 months is 'too long' for a standing arrangement to be in place. He expects this to happen ONE DAY before my due date, baby is probably going to be born at least 5 days earlier by c-sec.
So: we will meet to discuss the next 3 months of visits for DS, followed by the three months afterwards when there will be DS and a newborn to plan for. I am not being unreasonable to refuse to 'review' things at that time am I??
I'm tempted to tell him to go fuck himself and make arrangements via a solicitor if he isn't happy when we speak next week. I think he's damn lucky I'm even willing to sit down and talk with him at all, given that he left me and DS less than 4 months ago, while I was pregnant.
Please come and give me sensible suggestions because right now all I feel is rage 