Hi all, I'll try and be brief my ds is 4 (5 in July) was with his dad until he was 2, ended badly, in short he got sectioned and was not allowed to come anywhere near me and ds, panic alarm fitted, my address was on the system as an emergency.
This all died down he moved away for a year and a bit with new gf all restrictions lifted etc. cue now he and gf have split up he's moved back and he texted me saying he wanted contact with ds, I promptly told him over my dead body (to little too late!) he hasn't paid maintenance since last sept, 11!
Am I doing the right thing? My ds sometimes gets upset that his friends have dads and he doesn't but he wants for nothing he is loved by me (sooo much) and my family
Help please!!