Hi, in a nutshell family politics. Starting to feel like xmas again and I am feeling like want to run for the hills rather than be caught in middle playing peacemaker. Basically, my ds grandparents want to be with him to see parade saturday. Exp declared this eve he wants take ds to parade, plans to phone my mother tomorrow and tell her this. I know for fact that will not go down well with her, then I will get a cross call from her repeating this back to me!. I feel like screaming, I suggested to exp he can come see parade with us and ds grandparents but got told he is no way prepared to do that. What would you be doing with them all?, and do you know the really annoying thing is nobody gives a stuff what I would like to do on Saturday (big scream!!). I know my ds is lucky to have close family wanting to so be part of his life but at times like this I feel very tempted to move away. So, any advice how I can get through this weekend without falling out with any of them and get to enjoy the day with my ds?!!. Please help!