My ex was supposed to have DS for the weekend. He then said he had misunderstood (he was in my kitchen when we went through contact weekends and saw me write it on calendar!) and that he now had plans i.e. function with the OW. I had plans too! Anyway he then agreed he would be there to pick up DS on Sunday morning. Little bit of snow and he decided he wasn't coming and got very pissed instead. Anyway the roads were clear and traffic going in and out of his Army camp, trains were also running with no problems as I checked so I called him at 07:30 to hear him sound very drunk, the OW told him to put the phone down and he did. I called back he said he wasn't coming blah blah.
Anyway apart from a text at 11:30 that day saying traffic may have been going out of camp blah blah but they weren't driving far. I replied 'as I said roads were all clear and the trains were running' I have not heard from him since, not had an apology or anything he has still called my DS twice at my mums house though so he hasn't kicked the bucket!
Anyway is this normal? This is the second time he has preferred to go to some function with OW than see our DS and also preferred to go on holiday with her than spend any time with DS at Christmas. Is this what my life will be like? Treated badly and never an apology? Plus how am I supposed to ever feel happy about this whore spending time with my DS when she has already got in the way of contact and told him to put the phone down on me?