since giving birth to my baby, my father has not bothered to visit or even call to find out how she is. She is now five months old and there has been no contact. I even gave him a few days notice to say i was going to visit him and he told me he had an MOT booked! and other such excuses such as he needed a hair cut and he has been too busy (he is actually retired!!) it's soo hurtful to be treated like this and I feel my child will neaver meet her Grandfather and I feel like not trying to contact him every again. I don't understand why he is behaving like this. Our realtionship has always been distant by he has neaver totally rejected me like this..I am thinking about not bothering with ever again.