ex has ruined my xmas

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My ex has just been through a five week court case and Thursday night sent me a text message to say I need to forget about him as hes been found guilty and will be going to prison. Part of me wants to scream and cry as I cant believe Im only worth a bloody text message when I let him back into our lives even though I had doubts. I havent told my son as hed be gutted. Ive spent alot of today crying as I feel so bloody stupid for letting him back in but also so angry that I had anything to do with him. I agree he should go to jail for what hes done. Also due to the text message I went to my xmas party at work and got totally pissed as a fart and made aright spectacle of myself. Why cant I stop crying over this man?

Sounds like it's the break you need. Forget about me sounds totally manipulative, and designed to hook you back in by making you feel sorry for him.

It sounds too from your OP that he is not your ds's father. Cry for a few days over this loser then forgive yourself for being nice and start creating a lovely life for yourself.

He is your ex. I don't know the backstory but it really does seem like you are better off without him dragging your lives down. forget about me - as I say, listen to what he is saying and do it. Forget about him.

hi and thanks for the reply. he is my little boys dad and he given me nothing but grief and heartache over the years. Ive let him back into our lives so many times and each time he lets us down. This time I need to be strong and move on as life is far too short.