Ex not impressed that I have got a job.

[KnickersOnOnesHead]

Not sure what it is.

He doesn't think I should be working, I should be bringing up both Dc's. I think he is just jealous that he is in a shitty job but can't be arsed going for anything better.

It will be detrimental to the dc's well being me working full time and that I should be able to manage on all the benefits I get, after all, I have a free house too don't I?

I think you should be applauded.

Well done and good luck.

You don't suddenly stop bringing up your children because you are working. Ignore him. He hardly has your best interests at heart, does he?

if you can be financially independent that can only be good for you and DCs - go for it!

it's none of his business.

Does he pay child maintenance?

Well done to you :-)
Weird attitude from him.... Don't go to work or set a good example to the children... Live off benefits....just as well he is an ex I say!

I get 'petrol money' from him to take the Dc's to the school of his choice.

He rips into me for all the free money I get...I finally get myself the confidence to get a job still get shit from him. I cannot win either way.

No, you cannot win, so don't even try. Pity him, then ignore him. I agree with froggies.

Well done with the new job. Good luck with everything. Ignore him.

Ignore the twunty ex now wonder he's an ex eh.
Well done and this is the way to show what a woman can do to bring up her children. Stop letting him dictate anything about your life from now on.

Tell him to go fuck himself.*

*disclaimer: I'm ill, in a bad mood and am sick to death of twatty exes (mine, and others like yours).

You need to stop communicating with him full stop by the sounds of it.

Brief conversations regarding the dc only.

Bloody well done! Good for you for getting on with your life. Good luck and I hope its everything you want it to be

Thing is, I haven't even told him I have the job. He's either presumed, or there is someone on my facebook who knows him

Well done and good luck!

He sounds jealous. Or is fearful he might have to help pay for childcare? ( don't know if you are working day/night etc)

Either way it doesn't matter good for you!

Well done, again. I think it is actually a case of jealousy, and fear: with a new job will come a more open social life; he probably is happy to see you confined to four walls.

Good luck with the job!