having a moan, i know its stupid but i need to moan anyway

[starshaker]

Ok where to start. I was married a wee while ago and he cheated constantly so i kicked him out. This was 2008. Since then i have "seen" a couple of people but they werent looking for anything serious. Basically about a month after they ditched me they were in a relationship with somebody. What the fuck is wrong with me, why am i not the 1 somebody wants to be with. In my whole life i have never been important to anybody. I know i dont look good but i dont think im such an awful person. But i must be. Most of the time im happy with it just me and the children but every now and again i just wish i had somebody in my life that loved me. I do know its not gonna happen (i know there are lots of people that it has happened to but i will not be 1 of them) but sometimes i wish i wasnt so alone :(

Told you it was stupid but i just needed to moan and there is nowhere else to vent what im feeling.

Hi hun, it's okay to have a moan, and for the record I feel exactly the same as you and have had about the same amount of luck. At the moment i've given up on men and am just trying to make the best of life with just me and my son, but I know what you mean, it would be nice to have a special somebody. You can't look that bad if you've had some male interest!! Anyway most of the time it's nothing to do with looks, its just men messing about and being immature. I also feel i'll be on my own for a long time if not forever, but am trying to focus on just being happy for me, then if any men action happens, it happens. Being single isn't so bad, at least you don't have to go to the hassle of sitters to go out, and hey if you don't shave your legs for a few days it doesn't matter! No one to answer to, it does have its benefits. And i'm sure your children love you more than any man would!! x