Have another thread running (very long/don't look
) but this is a very specific question am hoping you can advise.
H left 4-5 months ago after 21 years together, we have 3 small children.
He has been paying 25% child maintenance and 25% spousal to meet the shortfall that my salary will not meet (or actually I pay him, since his salary is still paid into what is now just my account).
My salary just covers childcare (which is a very sizable chunk of it), plus food and diesel to get to work; the bills are covered by the child maintenance, the mortgage by the spousal payment which keeps a roof over our heads. There is nothing left over at the end of the month so when the fridge freezer died and the car needed a service, I went into overdraft and cut back on food.
After 4 months tax credits have finally been processed - yay
- and the amount will cover the cost of my childcare and, based on the current set up, the kids and I are going to have some money left over at the end of the month. But now I'm in receipt of tax credits, does that mean that H cuts back on the spousal maintenance, bringing me and the kids back to just covering costs/same as before and he benefits by seeing a rise in his salary as a result?
Or am I looking at it all wrong? Happy to be corrected!