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tashies · 02/11/2011 12:28

I'm new to this site so bare with me

I have recently broken up with my ex 2 months ago he was a drug addict mentally emotinally physically abusive person whom I have a 17 month old son to. He moved away to nsw to work I'm the mines there to financially better us off. I suspected something was going on and accessed his online phone account to find he was cheating on me. I confronted him and he at first denied it but eventually admitted to it since then it has been a rollercoaster ride wanting me back to find out he's still seeing other people ... During our whole relationship he has put me through hell the abuse the drugs getting hi
Of drugs getting him the help he needed until he moved to nsw doing a roster of 4 weeks on 1 week of it all fell apart. I am still devastated about it all I feel like I've lost my world but no that I'm
Better of but am longing for him his brother came today to
Get all his things out of the house that we rent which I am going to have to
Take on myself another issue financially... He has stated he doesn't care if he sees his son or not which breaks my heart he's back taking drugs and I don't want my son around that but I'm
Now upset he's not going to have his dad around...I have alot of support but feel like I'm not ever going to meet anyone again because I was always told I'd never find anyone as good as him . I love him and wanted my son to grow up with his mum and dad together please help has anyone gone through something similar and come out happier and found a nice guy ???

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WibblyBibble · 02/11/2011 22:40

Don't want to leave you unanswered! Haven't had the exact same experience but my ex was a complete dickhead to me and then dumped me when I was pregnant. I wouldn't say I'd found a particular nice guy but it's definitely happier without him as I don't have to worry about his stupid temper tantrums and aggressiveness- in fact I saw a counsellor and she asked me how I felt about the relationship ending now, and although I obviously still am sad for our daughter, I was able to say that I'm now relieved that I get chance to find someone who isn't mental!

cestlavielife · 02/11/2011 23:13

the response to your tilte is
"good." thank your lucky stars he didnt stay to make your lfie more miserable...

you dont love him -you love the idea of him the idea of a relationship family etc
it is ok to grieve for that
but just focus on you and child for now.

JustForThisOne · 03/11/2011 11:22

I would add to Cestlavielife comment also to steer clear of people who are telling you you will not find better than him... ?! sounds nearly impossible to get any one worse

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