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popalot · 17/10/2011 17:08

Hi

My sister is about to ask her partner to leave, but is very concerned her mortgage lenders won't be happy letting her continue to pay the mortgage. She was/is the breadwinner and earns 30 000 a year, and can afford to keep up with her mortgage payments (just). But will they kick up a fuss? What is the process.
Also, any advice on how she can ensure he will pay half of any credit card / loan debts. They have a joint account.
Any advice would be great.
They are not married, but have been together for many years and have 2 children together.

Thanks

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RedHelenB · 17/10/2011 17:20

As long as they get paid it won't matter. If she wants his name off the mortgage & her salary + maintenance is enough then there won't be a problem either as long as he agrees to it.

PinkCarBlueCar · 17/10/2011 20:34

What RedHelenB said. Presumably she already has good payment history with them, so afatc they'll just keep getting the money coming in.

Wrt the unsecured debts - if they're joint, it's his credit that affected too, and invariably you need a clean credit file if you want to rent privately, so it could be in his interest to keep his payments up.

popalot · 17/10/2011 21:34

thanks guys, makes sense.

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slavetomyson · 18/10/2011 17:25

Is it really that simple? I work part time and pay all of my mortgage and have done so for a year (but my exes name is still on it)..though if I went to get a mortgage for the amount i'm paying now it wouldn't be approved as I don't 'earn enough' for mortgage company requirements!! I was under the impression i'll be forced to sell once my ex wants his name off the mortgage..

susiedaisy · 18/10/2011 17:32

To have a persons name removed off a mortgage usually requires the work of a solicitor and its called conveyancing, I am in process of buying exH out and taking on new mortgage and havin his name removed from deeds of house it's quite a complex process that costs anywhere between £500 and £1200 depending on circumstances, this of course is only my experience

slavetomyson · 18/10/2011 18:20

Oh no what a nightmare susiedaisy.. I'd like my ex off the mortgage as I own more of the house than he does, and he doesn't have any money in the house whatsoever, would it be any simpler then or is it still complicated?

RedHelenB · 18/10/2011 18:50

When I took my ex of the mortgage I was only doing bits off supply teaching. Mortgage advisor stretched the truth a bit & said I wopuld be loooking for full time & Luckily for me my parents & grandparents paid some off. Child maintenance, tax credits & benefit were all taken into account,

RedHelenB · 18/10/2011 18:51

BTW, easiest if you go through your current mortgage provider

susiedaisy · 18/10/2011 19:32

I found a new mortgage with a lender that took tax credit child maintenance and my partime wage into account I used a local financial advisor and managed to avoid a valuation fee and an arrangement fee which I wouldn't if found if I had been doing it all myself, time consuming but worth the effort as I saved loads

susiedaisy · 18/10/2011 19:33

Wouldn't of found, not if

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