Hi I wonder if someone can point me in the right direction. My friend ishaving a really hard time just now, so I would like to do the research for her.
Sorry in advance, this is a long post. I hope I have put it in the right section.
She is a single parent with 3 children at home, 2 infant school children who have some mild congenital problems, and a teenager that is statemented with something that makes him violent aggressive and out of control (I have no idea what it is called). The teenager is in trouble with the police, school etc constantly and dealing with him has brought my friend to a very very low place.
Her ex has the children ever other weekend. He can't accommodate them in his rented place, which is about 60/80 miles away from them. So he has the kids at her house when its his turn (every other weekend). Lately he has been coming down and staying over some of "her" weekends, because she cannot cope, she has been suicidal, and so he has come down to support her, to assist with the troublesome teen. He does not contribute to the running of the house. They are not a couple. They do get on and have wondered if they might get back together in the future, but right now he pays his rent elsewhere and is visiting often at the moment to assist with this statemented child.
A lovely neighbour has reported her for benefit fraud, advising that he works away but lives with my friend the rest of the time.
My friend has visited a compliance officer to answer the questions they had. Fair enough. The officer wrote down what she thought, and my friend (and her mother, who attended the interview with her for moral support) corrected the compliance officer when she was incorrect, and the officer amended the document she was writing out, and read back the agreed comments, as they went through all the details.
At the end my friend was asked to sign the document to confirm that she agreed with the details. As they had gone through the painstaking task of agreeing each sentence and the lady had read back each sentence, she signed without reading it.
You have guessed what's coming, right?
When she got home, my friend realised that the compliance officer had not made some of the agreed changes. She had read out the agreed phrase/sentence etc but not written it down. My friend rang the compliance officer who said tough I can't change it now, you will just have to appeal.
I do believe my friend should complain about this lady, who been rude, aggressive, told my friend that everything she said is a pack of lies (rather than checking with the school/police and actually gathering the evidence that would show my friend to be truthful), and now effectively tricked her into signing something inaccurate. Yes I know she should have re-read it but she really is in a very vulnerable state right now and not on top of her game.
A great example is when my friend told the officer that her ex had come to support her as she had been suicidal, the compliance officer said "well you look alright to me". My friend asked her to speak to her GP who would be able to confirm details, and the officer advised that wouldn't, and that she didn't need to do that. I find this astounding.
Please can someone advise how to register a complaint against this compliance officer? Thank you