This isn't normal is it.......

[fairyfly]

Decided to ring x,he's not seen the boys since August and i have not asked for anything. Calm, sweet polite voice.

Me: Hi, sorry to disturb you, i just need to ask you something

X: WHAT?

Me: Well you know i never ring up and ask for anything and i'm sorry to do so but i really would be grateful if you could give us some money

X: WHAT FOR?

Me: Well i have just written a cheque for school and it will bounce, also the boys are desperate for winter coats and i am worried about them being cold at school

X: And has none of this never crossed your f*cking mind before

Me: Yes and i have tried to manage but it's not always possible

X: Well how much are you talking

Me: As much as you can give me, i would quite like to get them hats........

X: Yeh, Yeh , Yeh, less of the f*cking sob story

Me: So can you help us or not

X: Give us a fucking chance you ugly c*nt

Me: O.k. thankyou i really appreciate it, bye

X:

X:

Me: Have you gone?

X:

X:

Me: Obviously

Lunatic

sounds like a typical ex!!!

I guess if you can get away with contacting him only once every three months that is a small blessing..

FF

He's obviously a complete arse. Thank heavens you don't have to contact him regularly. Poor you.

OMG

i wait in anticipation to see how much i get

it doesn't upset me, or make me sad, i just wonder how you can wake up so angry

we split up two and a half years ago

we both have new lives

why does he hold on to such hatred

PSYCHO

but they are his kids, he should help.

He doesn't treat them as his kids, he knows nothing of them, he is dissilussional.

Apparently to do anything more for them he would have to move back in with me and he will never do that, so it's tough shit.

It makes me laugh, he asked where our youngest was, err he started school in september.

disgusting.
he'll regret it someday but it will be too late.

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Exuse the language BUT.........

WANKER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

what a f'ing arsehole!
give me his address and I'll go round and sort him out for you

Yep, sounds fairly normal to me.

For him, anyway.

No wonder you've got a sense of humour, FF.

Aimsmum, his mum was lovely, lovely lovely. A complete change of personality, she had respect for me. Congratulated me on having such well mannered happy boys and achieving that alone. When she talked about her son it was just with complete confusion as to what was wrong with him. She told me she thought of me often and was over the moon i had a new relationship and had gone back to education.
We went out for dinner, she brought presents ( even one for me). I think without her sick minded son causing trouble and sh*t stirring we can now develop a relationship without his imput. I have her email and promised to keep in touch. It was lovely to go through three years of photos.

As for the phonecall this morning, he's not been in touch since and has turned his phone off.
Apparently he believes he is seeing them on friday.
I know this is probably a wrong attitude and something i haven't stooped to yet but no money, no contact. He can f off.

I now have my own private relationship with firstly his father and now his mother.
Hahaha, no wonder he called me and ugly c*nt.

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what a nasty, nasty arseburger.

Glad you are in touch with his parents & they are being nice to you.
Sorry to hear he is still being such a sh*t! Good luck extracting some cash from him.

Thanks.

Well i rang back last minght, he was with his mum. Honestly i could have slapped his shitty face silly. As she was listening he said things like " of course you can have money , i will put it in your bank as i do every friday" and " is it my weekend to have them?", " i tell you what why don't i take them out for all the things they need"

Apparently he will ply my bank with money today.

ff, I want to slap him for you
Manipulative, nasty man.

Take care, & I hope he is forthcoming with money... but I can imagine you won't be surprised if it doesn't happen!

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I think he specialises in Street Poetry these days, obviously thinks it's cutting edge, his mother should have hidden trainspotting from him.

Yes fabulous idea, everyone else can buy the drinks, infact i'm planning to do a lot more pity me i'm skint threads before the big day.

I would be tempted to record the phone calls when his mum isn't listening and play them to her. And photocopy your bank statements for her too.

He sounds a delightful man. His girlfriend must be bursting at the seams with pride that she has stolen such a catch from you, you ugly c**t

I should really show her my statements, but that would take energy and i really cannot be arsed anymore.

I'm still quite annoyed by the ugly but, why couldn't he have said stupid, or fat, or f*cking.

Ugly is harsh

Yes, I expect everyone in England respects his opinion so much that it will ruin you.