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LostInSockLand · 21/04/2011 23:14

Not claimed something you were entitled to because of the problems and stress it caused?

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jamestkirk · 21/04/2011 23:44

what like?

LostInSockLand · 22/04/2011 00:06

Like a benefit you would be entitled to for example...should have probably said stopped claiming, would have made more sense! (Forgive me, my brain is fried today).

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jamestkirk · 22/04/2011 00:14

then only if you can do without it. i hated having to claim but couldnt have survived without it. tho the IS system was a lot easier back then.

if you already claim then stopping might cause even more stress?

LostInSockLand · 22/04/2011 00:32

I dont know...i'm already in the process of going bankrupt (well a cheaper version of it) and trying to move house so I have enough on my plate really. I have been up to my ears in paperwork this week when I should have been paying attention to the kids...is it really worth it I wonder?

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gillybean2 · 22/04/2011 07:37

I didn't bother claiming CTB when I started my current job. I would of been entitled to something like £1.50 a week or something like that. Which is still £78 over the year (a lot on my budget). But they wanted proof of everything (child care costs, what I get in maintenance etc) and they still come out to check on you once a year (look at bank statememts, ask questions etc).
And they'd just turn up and be really arsy funny that I hadn't been in for a few days. I had to point out to the woman that I WAS working not on IS anymore so of course I was going to be out at work in the day...

When I was on IS my only income was benefits, so it was quite simple and putting up with the annual visit was fine. And even the first job I got when I had no childcare needs and was still getting something like £10 a week CAB wasn't too bad with minimal paperwork still.
But with my next job it was such a hassle for a minimal amount, childcare costs only for the hols so weekly amount varied but would have meant I could of got more, ex was paying maintenance by then and I wasn't sure how much effect that had (but he woudln't always pay what/when he was meant too so that paperwork was a muddle). I didn't need the hassle on top of trying to juggle everything else.
So I just didn't bother! Even though I'd get letters via school etc which said lots of people entitled to HB and CTB weren't claiming and was I one of them. Yes I was but it wasn't worth the hassle and stress for what it was!

atswimtwolengths · 22/04/2011 15:13

Nobody comes out to you over Child Tax Credit! I was getting that when my children were younger, and have never been asked what maintenance I got or to show them bank statements.

I'm not sure whether they do that for housing benefit, but certainly not for CTC.

gillybean2 · 22/04/2011 18:10

CTB is council tax benefit

BooyHoo · 22/04/2011 18:17

i stopped claiming housing benefit last year because they were making so many mistakes. every week i was getting a new letter, dated the previous week telling me my situation had changed and i was no longer entitled/was now entitled to X amount. it was very frustrating. i couldn't plan my finances from one week to the next so i stopped claiming until i was no longer working and then i knew there would be no reason for them to find a change in circumstance every week. i couldn't do without it permanently though and my exp was able to help me out when things got tight.

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