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MrsSalvatore · 08/04/2011 20:12

long story short, my ex and I split up when I was pregnant and we had a brief period of being back together when he was 1. Ds is now 4 and my exp and I although i wouldnt exactly say friends, we are on good terms and always make the effort for ds.

On wednesday night though my exp started texting me asking if i was seeing anyone just now and he began reminiscing about all the happy good times we shared together. The conversation was very pleasant and I have to admit it stirred up feelings ive tried very hard to supress since we split up.

Last night he text asking if he could come to see me. I said I didnt think it was a good idea (i didnt know where we stood after this conversation) but eventually i gave in and he came over.

We had a lovely evening playing with ds together and watching tv and chatting after ds had gone to bed. Then he came over to sit next to me which eventually ended in us being in the spooning position. I started dozing off and the next thing i felt was him kissing the top of my head and stroking my hand. We talked until about half 2am and we ended up kissing. He didnt try and do anything else so I know he wasnt feeling horny and saw me as an easy target but now im so confused about my feelings and i dont know what to do about it?!!

Any advice would be greatly appreciated xx

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belledechocchipcookie · 08/04/2011 20:15

He's an ex for a reason. What sort of 'man' abandon's a pregnant woman??

MrsSalvatore · 08/04/2011 20:19

it wasnt really a case of him abandoning me, we just sort of decided that having a baby wasnt a reason to stay together because we hadnt been together long when i got pregnant. We've sort of got to know eachother better through our shared parenting rather than our short relationship

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belledechocchipcookie · 08/04/2011 20:21

Hmm. I'd take it slowly then. You don't have anything to lose. Best of luck, I hope it all works out for you Smile

MrsSalvatore · 08/04/2011 20:23

thank you, i definitely agree with taking it slowly because i cant be sure my feelings for him arent because of ds rather than him

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