I really want a big man hug

[TitsalinaBumSquash]

I am going through such an emotional roller coaster at the moment and I am finding myself craving a giant man hug.
I have so many lovely ladies in my life, friends and family but I really just want a man with big, strong arms to wrap me up and make me feel safe.

My ex is being a massive twat and it's coming up to the 1yr anniversary of my loosing my wonderful mum, my best friend come down to see me wich I loved but now she has gone again and I am sad.
I am finding myself crying lots and I just want to be taken care of.

Anyone ever feel the same?

yes .I have a very good male friend sadly not in same country and when he has been able to get over .It just feels so good to have a man hug .

And right now I too would love one .Just for a few hours someone to look after me so i dont have to be strong and deal with it all.

Though becaus eim such a akward moo after a fewours i would find it irriataing

Good to know it's not unusual.

I often wonder if its becuase my ex is a small and skinny man and never really made me feel very safe so the craving is for an oppisite. Or if it's where physically I am small so I want someone bigger to take care of me or maybe just where I am mising my Mum so much I'm just feeling like a kid again?!

yes must admit it come sinto it said friend is a tall man and stocky built and sounds silly but right at that moment when gettinga hug .Sadly not going to get to see him this year

I feel protected and safe .Yet most the time anyone knows me knows i have a kick arse attitude even he knows it oh and my xhubby was small and i never felt safe or protected

Yes on the outside I am a very 'strog' independant woman but today particuarly I am feeling a bit tiny and would really like some TLC, sadly I don't have any man friends, I have my Dad who is amazing but he isn't really a hugging kind of man.
I expect I will be ok again soon, I think it's the anti climax of having a great weekend with my friend combined with missing my Mum who was my 'safe' person.

I need a man hug too. Only thing is, the way I'm feeling at the moment, if I do get one, I'll probably just cry.

Can understand completly where you are all coming from.

titsalina firstly, I'm so sorry about you losing your Mum, must be awful and something that you never really get over...my thoughts are with you..

The "big man hug" I completely understand. I've wanted that for so long, and yes, it makes me want to cry too.You're not alone as you can see from this thread. Life is pretty shit sometimes:(

Another one needing a big man hug here.

Want to put my head on a big strong chest.

Non man hugs to all for now.

Me too. Titsalina - sorry about your mum too. Lots of love. One day you will find that big man. So will I. Well, a different one to you, as that would be a whole other thread. Have a big geordie hug from me for now (nearly as good as a man hug in my opinion) x