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aibu to fall out with her

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coffecoffe · 16/03/2011 15:16

Hi first post so be gentle.

I had a friend who i had known for around 6 months. we had become quite close and she came round to my house often.

About 5 months into the friendship she advised me she thought my ex partner was good looking.

This was fine with me and asked if she wanted me to set her up on a date with him.

She agreed and so did he after a bit of hesitation ( he thought it was a bit wierd) they got on well and started dating, i was happy for them.

I just had one rule that they didnt involve my ds at all untill they had got to know each other better they both thought this was the best thing for ds.

Anyway few weeks past and it was the day my ex partner has our son and he came to pick him up with her. I was fuming and they both knew and appologised. i accepted but said it isnt to happen again.

Then 2 weeks later i ring my friend to see whats she doing and shes out with ex parnter and ds i was so mad that she and he hadnt listened to my wishes i know she doesnt have any children but that isnt the point she knew how i felt.

so AIBU to never speak to her again.

oh and by the way they ended after 5 weeks.

rant over.

OP posts:
compo · 16/03/2011 15:18

Well if they're no longer together it's a bit of a non issue isn't it?

coffecoffe · 16/03/2011 15:19

Well this happened months ago just thinking should i start speaking to her again?

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bochead · 17/03/2011 12:23

Nope. A friend respects your wishes over summat as important as your child's feelings. She's not a friend - simples : )

lookingfoxy · 17/03/2011 16:20

What about your ex, he must have invited her along, take it your not on speaking terms with him either.

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