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I apologise in advance for my language

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bettiboo · 15/03/2011 21:40

I fucking hate my ex. He's a fucking cunt!!!! I dont' swear much but really want to have a rant - with swearing! Angry

I'm not bothered about getting responses but just want to get a few things off my chest (I'm also happy for comments if it takes your fancy).

So, my ex is a complete an utter twat. He has his son over night once a month (used to be 10 nights a month but that's another story) anyway, he wants to take DS out for his birthday; the event means he won't get back til midnight (he says 10.30 but I checked and have experience of the same event and he didn't get back til midnight last time) and he wants to bring him home rather than have him over night. Why the fuck can he not have him overnight. It's insane! He told me he would be back at 10.30 last time, why the fuck did he tell me that when he clearly will not get home til around midnight!!!! I know why, it's so I can't make plans and so I can't have a fucking night out. He is a complete and utter twunt!!!!!!! Okay rant over. I thank you. Blush

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fridascruffs · 15/03/2011 22:29

Can you not tell him, have him overnight or not at all?

lemonsquish · 15/03/2011 22:33

I agree, tell him that you have plans and will not be at home. The choice is to either have DS overnight or he will not see him that night.

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bettiboo · 15/03/2011 22:42

I don't really want to get into a dialogue with him. He'll just say no anyway. The guy is a tosser. My DS will be devasted if he can't go - it's something he really enjoys and is really looking forward to it. I was raging last time he did it. He told me he would be home at 10.30 but knew that he wouldn't be back til midnight. I could go out until 10.30 but it really pisses me off that he won't have him overnight. He's also getting married in the summer, has gone straight the school to book the day out and hasn't even told me when the wedding is. He doesn't even had PR and has next to nothing to do with his DS - I don't know where he gets the damn gall to go ahead and book things without even asking or telling me. I'll say nothing and then he can't use it to have an arguement with me.

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ChaoticAngelofAnarchy · 16/03/2011 20:24

If he doesn't have PR then you need to inform the school of this and ask them not to do anything that your ex says in future without first checking it with you. If he's booked the day with them can you not ask them what date it is?

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bettiboo · 16/03/2011 21:58

Hi chaotic, I don't really want to speak with the school about my private business. I'm just sounding off really. I won't stop him from having DS on his wedding day, I just think it was his usual underhanded way of getting to me by going direct to the school. DS also tells me that he will be staying in a hotel with his grandparents on the night of the wedding - again, no discussion with me to confirm whether this is ok. Of course, it will be ok, but it's that's not the point. I'm annoyed at myself for being annoyed IYSWIM Smile. I've said it before and I'll say it again - the guy is a total TWAAAAT

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